What mater is not the destination but whats is between.
No matter the place but what we have acces here and not somewhere else.
What’s matter is where we are by the instants of time.
As its also important not putting to mush attention in specific attitude/ behave/ mood we have
It’s also great not abusing of something or entering in an addiction.
Keep in mind that being to curious could be tricky sometime and make you like something that you actually dont.
But an important thing is not having regrets and dont look back.
And if we take risk; then assuming it and forget about it when we are into doing it.
And except if we actually like it because of the sensation that came to use.. then find another way to path through the experience of life.
When we have a date and need to walk from our place to another
(where we normally would’t decide going there by our own)
I discoverd that my walking approche are different from those usual I can get when im usually walking around my place to fill things i have to do.
As in my postural approche, good mood, assumly curious, attentive and free mind. Walking with energy and stop when i have an interaction.
Then, can happen that when we reach out.. our mood, desire, wish.. are different.
So as our walking approach could be more asumely friendly because of our joy reaching anyone we like to hangout with; we paradoxaly become less interested going where we go. (in the instant of time where&when we are passing trough variables ecosystem before reatching out).
And in the top of that, we actually dont know if that person will be there or even if she would have a mood that bounce whit us..
Then, better giving use possibility’s of alternatives.
Instead of not missing any true opportunity that we are actually able to interact with in the instant of time.
So in that case of figure; as we would meet someone; better not taking it to seriously…
better enjoying the moment and true circonstance when we can actualy interact with-in on the right way.
as our wish, mood, desire, curiosity priority, stats of mind and stimulation by ecosystem wee are passing trough.
Can be differant by instants.
taking in consideration what’s came before;
As we all know that we feel happy reatching a friend.
Better not give a date to your friends.
But a place where you know that you eventually would be able to meet them in a large time slots.
Or even better, if you could keep in mind that in certain moment of your day.
You would finally reach somewhere,
Where you would be able to meet theme.
Or even just a place that are aim and arrange to meet people in the same mood.
Because
When from the instant you get out from bed; you would certainly be passing through various ecosystems that are actually atractive in the instant just as we almost feel in alchemy with it.
So better having flexibility in our schedules and not putting to much attention in things that are not in our proper ecosystems that we are currently in and passing trough.
(If you are employee it can be even more simple – but well im speaking as a “baroudeur”)
Better be our self, doing what we are determined to do at the moment; being totally here without even think about our possibilities to not doing it.
In grid pattern ecosystem that are aim for us. I mean where we would not be impacted by bad feelings that can influence our human interaction.
It’s always nice having everything we need in our bag to work and even change us.
And because the place where we are, almost dosent matter;
As its not the destination or the purpose that matter but the unknown and our adaptatibily to let it go.
we might be in power of movement, disciplined, diversify our activities, being focused in each thing we do and dont abuse. ..
And
Instead of not walking around our house with weariness when we have to fill our specific needs.
Then, first, its important to stimulate us (in the proper way and need of the instant)
Having a goal that make you happy to reach out (even if you actually won’t), as for ex:
Having an emergency exit to get out of your country.
Like fo exemple; buy an one way ticket to any other country in Europe for less than 20€
Where when you get the ticket
You Could feel renewed sense of energy coming on you and good spirits—a source of strength to re-energize in daily life & a sensation of freedom.
Giving you joy and happiness to re stimulate you interacting whit anyone crossing your path and keep doing it even if they don’t answer yet.
Able to bounce whit anything comes.
Able to put & keep hope in everything till you finally end up whit due date;
no mater if you took it or not. What’s matters is the present, the unknown and your capacity to believe in it at the instant of time.
As in the same time of not leaving by fear of consequences from risk you took in the past.
Not looking for any approbation from anyone; your life is yours.
What’s matter are your adaptability to stimulating & focus, quality of interaction and capacity to build things by sharing impulse, wish’s, communication and hope in the unknown.
Or
giving us a destination where we would suposly feel able to interact with people. Better that its kind a random destination where we would’t go as usual.
Because in the end anywhere you are, you can actually travel in.
There is always places where you havent been; and in the top of that.. its not a matter of places but circonstances in there proper infinit variable of time.
Your only need is to stimulate you and live in places that dont remind you bad feelings or that are easy to conditioning you.
Because as i was saying in the last article.
You can judge many things from yours own perception. And in the end.. when you decide to interact; being surprised to meet someone way much more interesting than you felt in the beginning.
Even better when we have our mate on us; that we can share with anyone we meet on our way.
But instead of not having it. im sure to find other reason to break the glass.
Actually; in hostel or anywhere else
Whenever i reach a new country
I think im going to get a local bord game. And that way, would be easyer to give a reason to break the glace.
But for sure, even if i can try to do it whit anyone crossing my path on the street; better doing it with people that legitimately share same “inconvenient”
(or lets nuance that by : same reason to be here, doing that. Like for exemple ; walking straight on the same street and having to cross car path.)
Mutual shared Constraint and circumstances of the instant.
