When i left France the 10 of July 2026. I wasn’t prepeard.
I thought I would be able to build the basement of my website before.
But, reality called me back on the way. Nowhere to be; nowhere to go.
Here, at least, beacause; I might be somewhere.
See what i could do.
As i currently stay in Malaysia,
i had the opportunity to spend an entire months in an Malaysian Chinese shared house; having my own room.
This district, call: KAMPUNG
CEMPAKA
Was Mosley Chinese, with a minority of Malay and Indian people.
When i say Chinese, in that case, i say Malaysian Chinese..
those people use to tell that they are different from those other chinese community anywhere in the world like Singapore, Hong Kong , china etc.
Some of them were actually celebrating the hungry ghost festival.
Coming back to our sheep;
Yes there is Malaysian chinise that keeps there “own culture” lets say..
but some other are Muslim ;and its quite interesting to see that.
As it’s already quite deeply pasioning and lovely to see how behave Malaysian that are usually Muslim.
Being here is way much more relaxing than being in country’s like Morocco.
Even if i heard from some Malaysian Chinese that Muslims are more rude in the north part of Malaysia.
(in city like Alor Setar etc)
For the moment its only things i heard.
Will see..
anyway..
there is no hostel in those towns..
excepting in Langkawi Island that some grab driver recommended me..
actually,
its funny to take that in consideration but,
almost all of the best interaction i had with locals people in Malaysia were in moments i used:
grab. (Uber but, way much more cheaper).
Living or even passing trough local district in Malaysia;
just like many other country..
It’s impossible to go unnoticed. They always keep an ayes on you. Hearing what they can. Trying to interact when they can; according to their mood, approche, and wanted.
Helping in anything they can, seeing what we need even if we havent say’d anything yet.
Sometime they can be a bit to friendly and sometimes.. not at all.. but; that its not only with me.. i seen that it can also happen between them.
But most of the time Malays are more talkative.
Can happen that Chinese people would analyse you; judge yours ways to act in your back without even necessarily even try to speak with you.
There are not pushy person.
And in some local district, like when you are in the queue; they care not giving you presure.
I can say many thing about it but its depending to much on each person.. there is not much thing we can’t generalise.
So on, I must just;
Assuming my self anywhere i am.
Not paying attention to any kind of reliable interpretation.
Stimulate me as i should in odder of being focus and performant in what i need to be at the moment.
Because in the end,
that the most important thing; no mater reliable interpretation or jugement from other..
they would learn to know me as they wish or dont.. that’s not my problem.
In case of isolatition&lonlynes
That important to have local people with who we feel confortable to speak with;
able to figure out what you actually passing trough.
Where each have there main topics.
And if you havent foud it yet; then..
way more important to not enter in the cocktail : shy + suspicious + aprobation ; because if you do, you would create the problem more than anything.
Stimulate me in my approach and posture..
whenever its also something that we learn to use.
As it’s also important not puting to mush attention in specific attitude/ behave/ mood we have.
Better acting with a step back and detachment.. i mean the interior one.
Not the one influenced by anyone as some people would try for exemple to hide or block their empathy; even when they are attracted to someone.
Finding friends aren’t easy but its not the only thing;
First of all, you must be ready your self; instead of not breaking sacred bones by not being to pushy, assuming your self not to wildly or not showing your disagree and position about certain subjects.
Better keep calm and interact enthusiastically with people that are ready to have an humble conversation.
Giving lie or vague answer to people that ask in the way that they are actualy not asking anything more than the answer they like to hear.
Dont let your ecosystem conditioning you.
Even if it could happen sometime to stay in hostel where people dont interact with each other it’s important not keeping judgment & emotion. Better to go on with the flow and perhaps, one day, in a certain instant of time; by sharing mutual circumstances or constraint.. you would find the impulse to break the glace and throw an : where you from. You would get surprised.
So, in our behaviour, way to interact and communication…
better not getting impacted by reliable interpretation or judgement that people could say in different ways. Or even bad approach & perspective that could make us arrogants, suspicious etc.
Beter to take it easy, assuming our self &flow; being humble, friendly, free mind, authentic by the instant.
In the main time of being attentive in what’s going on around, able & ready to act when it’s needed. Or even just interact naturally even when the ecosystem where we are; is full of “ghost”.
Instead of not stimulate us to be social as we usually do
We could loos our impulses and strength to stimulate us. And thene, keep doing as the other,
Missing out great interaction when we actually meet good people in the way that in this instant of time we had losted our reflection.
When someone seam interested to you but you actually dont. Try your best to be here for him/her; and dont keep any postural approach that could make people feel a discomfort.
Our ecosystem can just conditioning us.
And when you finally get their attention; you usually find amazing people.
And well, if they are negative; then end up.
